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There was once this article I read written by an anonymous writer whos idea involves with individuals having strange problems against their own enraged selves. The outline of that idea goes like this:
Getting Out of your Comfort Zone:
1. The parts of your personality that doesn’t work
2. The parts of your behavior that doesn’t work
3. The values and beliefs of yours that doesn’t work
4. The relationships that you have doesn’t work
Written by: Anonymous
The points were right and it encompasses oneself or pointing into an individual to make some changes. Its part of growing up. Who else would want to stay up a high school student forever? Who wants to make noodles forever? That may be an indication that a fellow wants to change because a person desires to move forward. Nobody wants to move backward.
These are just stepping stones that we need to remember in order for us to move forward. This is in order for us to move out from our comfort zones.
First sentence establishes part of you that doesn’t work. May be there are set of changes that you need to consider why people aren’t noticing you. You might believe that you have talent but the real question is, did they see your true potential? Have they seen you doing this or that? May be not. So its time to go out of your comfort zone and be confident.
Second, its possible that your behavior makes you unworthy of yourself. Probably its one of the reasons why people are baffled about you. You just need to understand your own doings and somehow change that aspect and make it an improvement to become a fully grown person out of your comfort zone.
Third, there are people who are real believers of what they believe in and keen observers. And people who are good at psyching you. May be you missed the points that gives an impact to another person. Its a value that you give yourself an importance to others. Ask yourself: What is important to you that no other else have from you? What makes you valuable than any other people? Think about it and may be it can change you and your entire aspect of being if you change any of your values and beliefs.
Lastly, relationships that doesn’t work. May be I can relate to that idea. I have no interest much in relationships but relationships arrive at the right time and right moment. It’s not a question of being alone makes you unhappy. May be its not the right time to have a relationship now that’s why it doesn’t work. The world doesn’t work that way. You just live by it. Live by the rules or make your own rules and feel the world around you may be it sets aside with you.
Make this a guide to change yourself. Some day you’ll find what you’re looking for.